Name: Rob
Email: RobBham@gmail.com
[RobBham at gmail dot com]
Location: Birmingham, Alabama, USA
Age: 58 [as of July 2020]
Height: 6'0"
Weight: 200
REAL DISCIPLINE SPANKINGS - give and get [50/50]
I am in Birmingham, Alabama and interested in giving and getting REAL spankings. If you are in the area or planning to travel to the area, lets talk about our mutual interests. I also like to travel - so it might be possible to arrange a meeting even if you are not located in my immediate area - it never hurts to ask.
Looking for: I am willing to engage in role play or just do the spanking without any role play. Possible role play includes dad/ son, big brother/ little brother, principal or teacher/ student, coach/ jock, cop/ speeder, store security/ shoplifter, boss/ employee, pledge master/ pledge, or make a suggestion.
I prefer to spank guys who are my age or younger [must be at least 18] and get spanked by guys who are younger or older. I also prefer guys who are reasonably height/ weight proportionate [a few extra pounds is okay].
Can also get into shaving, mouth soaping, corner time, and other humiliation along with the spanking.
Sex might be possible if the chemistry is right between us, but spanking not sex is the primary goal.
Growing up: Yeah I was spanked growing up, but never on the bare like I get it now. Mostly got it with the belt or yardstick [occasionally a switch] on whatever I was wearing at the time - pants, PJ's, bathing suit, etc. - bent over grabbing ankles or over the bed. Got paddled a couple of times in school in the 5th grade - bending over touching toes in the hallway by a male teacher along with some other boys from class. Never got it in high school - although they did still paddle and I saw or heard others get it from teachers, coaches and principals.
Pain: When giving, I respect all limits but I am looking to give or get REAL spankings. REAL spankings do hurt and leave the bottom red, hot, stinging and sore. The recipient should be squirming, kicking, yelling and begging - and perhaps crying REAL tears before the spanking is completed.
Look like: Everyone has to make their own judgment on whether someone is attractive, but most tell me that I am attractive or handsome. I have thick brown hair and dark brown eyes. I am clean cut with a short neat haircut and clean shaven face. My body is not very hairy but I am not completely smooth; although my butt doesn't have much hair [and it can be shaved if necessary before a spanking]. Some say that I look like a preppy former frat boy - although I never was in a fraternity [but I wish I had been to experience the paddling and hazing] but willing to play the frat boy role. My appearance can probably best be described as a conservative clean cut business type when dressed in a suit and tie; and preppy casual when dressed in jeans or shorts and a button-down or polo. I have photos and willing to trade pics with you prior to meeting [you MUST have pics to trade also if you are interested in meeting me].
Implements: I have a LARGE collection of spanking implements including paddles, belts, brushes, spoons, straps, tawses, canes, crops, etc. My hand is always available and it is possible to cut a switch. Restraints are available but not required.
Positions and implements:
* OTK with hand, small paddle, wooden spoon, bath brush, etc
* Bent over assuming the position for frat paddle or school paddle
* Bent over the back of a chair for cane or tawse
* Lying face down on bed for belt or razor strop
* Restrained for any of the above
Spankings can start on pants or undies or bare - but regardless of how they start, all spanking end on the bare butt.
Active: I was never a jock in high school - I was too little and skinny then. I finally filled out and a few people have asked me if I played football in high school - but I probably weighed less than some of the cheerleaders - so I didn't. I am certainly not an athlete but I do make it up off the couch from time-to-time and even make it to the gym [although not as much as I should - maybe someone can MOTIVATE me].
Other Locations: Can travel throughout Alabama and the nearby states of Florida, Georgia, Louisiana, Mississippi and Tennessee - esp. Atlanta, Nashville, New Orleans. Also travel to Chicago for some of the Spanking Parties, Chicago for IML [International Mr Leather held Memorial Day weekend], Chicago for Northalsted Market Days [held in early August], New Orleans for Southern Decadence [Labor Day weekend], San Francisco for Folsom Street Fair [last Sunday in September]. Have also been to the MoonBurn Spanking Party in Los Angeles [held first Saturday of every month] and San Francisco Spanking Party before Folsom Street Fair. Always seeking new places to visit and new spanking buddies - so a road trip is definitely possible.
Profiles:
SpankThis Hookups Profile: RobBham
Recon Profile: RobBham
FetLife Profile: RobBham
You are welcome to join any of my groups if you are interested. You can also contact me directly if you are interested in communicating about our mutual interests and perhaps meeting for spanking fun.
If you are interested, please send an email and tell me about yourself including your age, stats and your spanking interests. If you are interested in meeting, please have a recent pic that shows your face available for trade [NO EXCEPTIONS].
Note: I have spent time and effort in composing a detailed post. I will give priority in responding to those who make the effort to compose a detailed reply. If you send a one sentence reply just saying "I am interested" ... there better be "a picture worth a thousand words" attached if you want a reply.
I am looking forward to making new contacts for lots of spanking fun.
Links:
Google Group: Folsom-MM-Spanking
Note: This profile was adapted and enhanced based on my profile which was posted at the former GUYSPANK site. Thanks to Jake for all the years he dedicated to GUYSPANK. Jake, the GUYSPANK founder, died in June 2007 - Rest in Peace, Jake.
Thursday, July 8, 2010
Punishment vs. Erotic Spankings
I came across this table that I printed from Reb-online back in 2005. The Reb's website was shutdown in 2008, but I am glad that I saved this. He had some other gems on the site that I wish I had printed out as well.
Why does an adult male want or need to be spanked?
A few years ago, a spanker shared this with me.
The reasons an adult "boy" wants or needs a spanking are quite varied but usually include one or more of the following:
Do you feel a NEED to be spanked, or is it more of a DESIRE or CRAVING?
What is your reason? Is it one or more of the above or something else altogether?
What is your story? [In the words of Dr. Fraser Crane ... "I'm listening"]
Check out my detailed spanking profile at:
About Me - My Spanking Profile
The reasons an adult "boy" wants or needs a spanking are quite varied but usually include one or more of the following:
- He is a masochist
- He has some sort of sexual desire for a spanking
- He enjoys the excitement of giving up control to another person
- He has deep rooted guilt that needs purging (usually over and over again)
- He wants to be punished for specific misdeeds to motivate himself to improve his behavior
- He wants to re-live his childhood experiences
- He wants to experience what he did not get as a child (like his childhood friends received)
- It is a macho thing - He wants to prove to himself that he can take it.
Do you feel a NEED to be spanked, or is it more of a DESIRE or CRAVING?
What is your reason? Is it one or more of the above or something else altogether?
What is your story? [In the words of Dr. Fraser Crane ... "I'm listening"]
Check out my detailed spanking profile at:
About Me - My Spanking Profile
When did you realize that you like spanking?
Spanking was very common when I was growing up here in Alabama. It was the rule - not the exception - that kids were spanked by parents, teachers, etc.
You can read the account of my Childhood Spanking History elsewhere on this blog at:
You can read the account of my Childhood Spanking History elsewhere on this blog at:
Childhood Spanking History
I recall that as kids when we "played house" that "the Daddy" and "the Momma" would spank "the child" for some reason - and that was an aspect of "playing house" that always seemed to be constant. Likewise, when we "played school", the teacher or principal would spank the student.
I also remember that if one of my friends got paddled in class at school that we would all be questioning him about it when we went to the boy's room [and perhaps even taking a look at his butt to see if there were any marks]. It was also common for boys to discuss the punishments that they got at home from their dad - almost in the "my dad whips my butt harder than your dad whips yours".
I recall when some cousins who lived in another city visited and for some reason the topic turned to spankings and how they spanked at our schools. My cousins [one a year or two older and the other my age or perhaps a year younger] went to a Catholic school and told us about being spanked by the nuns. They said that the nuns would make boys lower their pants and undies and paddle them on the bare bottom. I attended public schools and pants were never pulled down for paddlings - so this was of great interest to me even as a young boy still in elementary school.
As I progressed into adolescence, like most boys I was curious about everything sexual and about the changes to my body. At some point, I discovered my Dad's stash of "girlie magazines" [mostly soft porn] that he kept on the top shelf in his bedroom closet. I would sneak peeks at them - always being careful to put them back in the same order they were in, so that my Dad would not know that I had been plundering through his things. During some plundering in the hall closet, I discovere an old piece of hand luggage where my dad had stashed some of the older items from his collection [the more recent ones were on the shelf in his closet]. I would look at them and then put them back in the bag. I remember that one time I had some of them out and my Dad came home unexpectedly, but I was able to sneak them back into the bag in the hall closet without him realizing what was going on.
When I was about 13 years old [I don't remember the exact age but I know it was when I was going through puberty], I was changing and more and more curious about the things in those magazines. An interesting point about those magazines is that a lot of them were a magazine titled "Mr." that is no longer published [to my knowledge]. Those "Mr." magazines often had letters and stories that dealt with spankings [most often the fathers spanking daughters or wives, but sometimes letters or stories where a boy was spanked by his father or aunt or teacher, etc.]. The bag in the hall closet had some back issues of "Mr." magazine along with one little booklet that would have been classified as "harder core porn" [it showed pictures of a threesome - 2 women and 1 man - and showed the women doing things together as well as getting fucked by the man].
Well, I took some of the "Mr." back issues and hid them in my room so that I could read them in privacy at night with my door closed. I recall reading a letter or story in one of those "Mr." back issues where a boy had not done his school work and his teacher kept him after school and she took her hairbrush out of her purse and took down his pants and briefs and put him over her lap and blistered his bare butt with her brush. I had my first active cum shot while reading that - I had cum before but it had been during wet dreams. I had been masturbating before that and had leaked pre-cum but never had cum. It was so exciting to realize that I could do that and after that first time, I wanted to do it all the time [just like all teen boys].
Spanking - or at least reading and thinking about it - was associated with my first cum shot while jacking off. I may have liked spanking before then, but that is the seminal moment [pun intended] to which I can look back and say that I knew that spankings excited me.
You can read about My First Adult M/M Spanking elsewhere on this blog at:
My First Adult M/M Spanking
You can check out my detailed spanking profile at:
About Me - My Spanking Profile
I recall that as kids when we "played house" that "the Daddy" and "the Momma" would spank "the child" for some reason - and that was an aspect of "playing house" that always seemed to be constant. Likewise, when we "played school", the teacher or principal would spank the student.
I also remember that if one of my friends got paddled in class at school that we would all be questioning him about it when we went to the boy's room [and perhaps even taking a look at his butt to see if there were any marks]. It was also common for boys to discuss the punishments that they got at home from their dad - almost in the "my dad whips my butt harder than your dad whips yours".
I recall when some cousins who lived in another city visited and for some reason the topic turned to spankings and how they spanked at our schools. My cousins [one a year or two older and the other my age or perhaps a year younger] went to a Catholic school and told us about being spanked by the nuns. They said that the nuns would make boys lower their pants and undies and paddle them on the bare bottom. I attended public schools and pants were never pulled down for paddlings - so this was of great interest to me even as a young boy still in elementary school.
As I progressed into adolescence, like most boys I was curious about everything sexual and about the changes to my body. At some point, I discovered my Dad's stash of "girlie magazines" [mostly soft porn] that he kept on the top shelf in his bedroom closet. I would sneak peeks at them - always being careful to put them back in the same order they were in, so that my Dad would not know that I had been plundering through his things. During some plundering in the hall closet, I discovere an old piece of hand luggage where my dad had stashed some of the older items from his collection [the more recent ones were on the shelf in his closet]. I would look at them and then put them back in the bag. I remember that one time I had some of them out and my Dad came home unexpectedly, but I was able to sneak them back into the bag in the hall closet without him realizing what was going on.
When I was about 13 years old [I don't remember the exact age but I know it was when I was going through puberty], I was changing and more and more curious about the things in those magazines. An interesting point about those magazines is that a lot of them were a magazine titled "Mr." that is no longer published [to my knowledge]. Those "Mr." magazines often had letters and stories that dealt with spankings [most often the fathers spanking daughters or wives, but sometimes letters or stories where a boy was spanked by his father or aunt or teacher, etc.]. The bag in the hall closet had some back issues of "Mr." magazine along with one little booklet that would have been classified as "harder core porn" [it showed pictures of a threesome - 2 women and 1 man - and showed the women doing things together as well as getting fucked by the man].
Well, I took some of the "Mr." back issues and hid them in my room so that I could read them in privacy at night with my door closed. I recall reading a letter or story in one of those "Mr." back issues where a boy had not done his school work and his teacher kept him after school and she took her hairbrush out of her purse and took down his pants and briefs and put him over her lap and blistered his bare butt with her brush. I had my first active cum shot while reading that - I had cum before but it had been during wet dreams. I had been masturbating before that and had leaked pre-cum but never had cum. It was so exciting to realize that I could do that and after that first time, I wanted to do it all the time [just like all teen boys].
Spanking - or at least reading and thinking about it - was associated with my first cum shot while jacking off. I may have liked spanking before then, but that is the seminal moment [pun intended] to which I can look back and say that I knew that spankings excited me.
You can read about My First Adult M/M Spanking elsewhere on this blog at:
My First Adult M/M Spanking
You can check out my detailed spanking profile at:
About Me - My Spanking Profile
Why do you like spanking?
I am asked this question often by those who are not "into" spanking [non-spankos].
The question is easier asked than answered [at least for me]. Many seemingly simple questions are the most difficult to answer.
The simple answer is: "I don't know why ... I just do." However, that might appear to be a non-answer to many.
In reality, the answer is "because that is the way I am" or "that is the way that I am wired". There are many things that I like or dislike and cannot explain why. I like the taste of certain foods and dislike others - I don't know why - but my taste buds know what I like and don't like.
Basically, it is because of my DNA or the "spanking gene". If it is not genetic, then how do you explain those who were never spanked as a child, yet have a desire for it; or those who were spanked as a child, but hate it?
I can't explain to non-spankos why that I like spanking any more than I can explain why I am gay or why I like lettuce but not cabbage.
So, the next time someone asks me "why do you like spanking?" ... I will answer "because it's in my genes".
The question is easier asked than answered [at least for me]. Many seemingly simple questions are the most difficult to answer.
The simple answer is: "I don't know why ... I just do." However, that might appear to be a non-answer to many.
In reality, the answer is "because that is the way I am" or "that is the way that I am wired". There are many things that I like or dislike and cannot explain why. I like the taste of certain foods and dislike others - I don't know why - but my taste buds know what I like and don't like.
Basically, it is because of my DNA or the "spanking gene". If it is not genetic, then how do you explain those who were never spanked as a child, yet have a desire for it; or those who were spanked as a child, but hate it?
I can't explain to non-spankos why that I like spanking any more than I can explain why I am gay or why I like lettuce but not cabbage.
So, the next time someone asks me "why do you like spanking?" ... I will answer "because it's in my genes".
See my detailed spanking profile at:
About Me - My Spanking Profile
My Childhood Spanking History
During initial chats about my spanking interests, the most common question I am asked is: "Were you spanked as a child?"
This seems to be the first question regardless of whether or not the person asking was spanked as a child himself. Those who were spanked as a child want to compare experiences and those who were not want know what it was like.
While my interest in spanking is Adult Male/Male Spanking, I will share my childhood spanking history here - because it is a commonly asked question and so that I can refer those who ask about it to this post and don't have to repeat it over and over.
So let's get started... what was your first question?
Were you spanked as a child?
For this reason, I don't really focus on my childhood spanking experiences or re-living them. My focus is adult m/m spanking experiences.
This seems to be the first question regardless of whether or not the person asking was spanked as a child himself. Those who were spanked as a child want to compare experiences and those who were not want know what it was like.
While my interest in spanking is Adult Male/Male Spanking, I will share my childhood spanking history here - because it is a commonly asked question and so that I can refer those who ask about it to this post and don't have to repeat it over and over.
So let's get started... what was your first question?
Were you spanked as a child?
Yes, I was spanked as a child.
Who all spanked you at home? Who spanked most often?
I was spanked at home by my Dad and Mom and also by the housekeeper who stayed with us during the day while my Dad and Mom were at work. I was also spanked at times by my grandparents who lived next door.
As for who spanked most often, that would probably be the housekeeper since she had to contend with us for nearly 10 hours per day. My Mom was also not one to say "wait until your Dad gets home" and spankings from her were probably more frequent than from my Dad.
At what age was your last parental spanking?
I can't remember exactly how old I was when I received my last parental spanking, but if I had to guess, I would say 13 or 14 years old.
How often were your spanked at various ages?
In the preschool years, I am sure that the spankings were more frequent - several times per week and sometimes maybe more than once in a day. As I got older, the spankings occurred less frequently, but there was no punishment book with my spankings recorded [that would make interesting reading now I suppose]- so I can't really give accurate statistics.
What was used to spank you?
My Dad mostly used the belt or wooden yard-stick.
My Mom mostly used the wooden yard-stick or the flyswatter [it was sturdy plastic blade attached to a wire handle and still serviceable over 40 years later - they don't build 'em like that anymore].
The housekeeper mostly used the flyswatter or her hand.
My grandfather tended to prefer a switch and would say "I'll take a shillelagh to you". I always thought that was another word for switch and only years later did I learn it is an Irish term meaning a club with a strap - more like a walking cane than a switch. Here is a link if you want more info http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shillelagh_%28club%29
What was the most common position of your pants and underwear for spanking?
I was never spanked on the bare bottom as a child. Basically, I was spanked on whatever I was wearing at the time - pants, undies, pajamas, bathing trunks, etc. I was threatened with a bare bottom spanking on several occasions, but it never happened. Looking back, I wish that I had gotten spanked on the bare - I guess I feel that I missed out on that.
What position was used [OTK, over bed, etc.] for spankings?
Either bending over grabbing ankles or over the bed mostly. I don't recall ever being taken OTK except for a birthday spanking - never for real punishment.
What were the most common things you were punished for?
Sassing or "talking back", lying, fighting/squabbling with sister, running or playing ball in house, going off without telling someone where I was going, messy room, leaving bike, etc. strown in yard, not doing chores, not doing school work, general disobedience, etc.
Were the spankings formal or informal?
There were no formal or set rituals. Might be spanked in bedroom over the bed, but also might be spanked in living room bending over grabbing ankles.
What other punishments were used other than spanking?
Grounding [not allowed to go anywhere other than school, church, etc. and confined to room when at home], standing in corner, not allowed to watch television, not allowed to ride bike, extra chores [raking grass, pulling weeds, etc.]
Do you have siblings and were they punished the same, harder or easier than you? If harder or easier, why do you think that was?
Yes, I have two sisters - one older and one younger. We were all punished the same basically. Although, my little sister would hit me and if I started to hit her back, she would cry [before I even hit her] and then I would get spanked for hitting her when she was the guilty party [what can I say - she was a hellion - and even admitted this years later]. The housekeeper would spank me and my younger sister, but not my older sister [because my older sister would tell her that she wasn't going to spank her and she didn't that I recall].
If you were your Dad, do you think you would have punished you more or less or the same as you actually received?
Well, if I were my Dad and knew the things that I got away with that he didn't know about, I would have gotten punished more. Absent that knowledge of secret transgressions, probably about the same as what I actually received.
I probably didn't get spanked as much or as severely as some, but got more than others. However, I was basically a good kid and never got into any MAJOR trouble. My Dad really didn't have to spank me to get my attention. He commanded respect and only had to give me a look or speak to me once and I knew to "straighten-up and fly-right". Parents don't get that kind of respect from kids today - because they don't understand how to train up their kids.
Did anyone other than parents ever spank you? If so, who, what did you get and why?
As I stated above, I was also spanked by housekeeper and grandparents.
I was also paddled by a teacher a couple of times when I was in the 5th grade. I think that I got 3 licks [swats] with a wooden paddle while bending over touching toes in the hallway by a male teacher along with some other boys for talking in class. I never got paddling in high school - although they did still paddle and i saw or heard others get it from teachers, coaches and principals.
Where did you grow up?
I grew up in South Alabama - sometimes referred to as L.A. - lower Alabama.
So that is a brief recollection of my childhood spanking history. I didn't have the experiences of growing up and getting the bare bottom blisterings that so many did - this is a true account and not as exciting as the accounts that many can relate.
For this reason, I don't really focus on my childhood spanking experiences or re-living them. My focus is adult m/m spanking experiences.
Checkout my detailed spanking profile at:
My First Adult M/M Spanking
When I was in college, I tried to get my girlfriend [yes, I dated girls] to spank me. However, she was wasn't into it at all and probably thought that I was nuts. She was afraid that she was hurting me and SHE actually started crying. She didn't understand that I wanted the spanking to hurt. She didn't understand that the centers for pleasure and pain are very close and even connected for some of us. Several years later, I tried the spanking thing with another girl, but she really wasn't into it either. Neither of them gave me the kind of spanking that I wanted. I guess I was just so nice and lovable that they had no desire to hurt me.
I was 31 years old before I received my first spanking as an adult from another man. I had seen an advertisement for an adult BBS [bulletin board service] in the back of Penthouse Variations magazine [yes, I was still looking at straight porn and had not had any m/m sex at the time].
Through the BBS, I happened to locate a man in my area [or perhaps he located me – I don't remember now]. I chatted with him about my curiosity and interest in being spanked. He had spanked a couple of men previously, but he dated [and maybe was engaged] to a woman. He was older than me – perhaps in his early 40s and wanted to give me a spanking and I wanted to get spanked.
This was in the days before scanners and digital cameras were common and everyone didn't have photos to trade online. We talked on the telephone and then arranged to meet in public. We met in a parking lot of a grocery store about a mile from my house. After sizing each other up, we decided to proceed and I invited him to ride with me to my house.
He was about my height or maybe a bit taller. He wasn't a lot older than me, but he was slightly balding and looked older than his actual age – while I have always looked younger than my actual age. So the effect was that he appeared old enough to be an authority figure. He wasn't wearing a suit and tie, but he did have on dress slacks and a long sleeve dress shirt – so there was the sense of authority in his attire as well.
He placed a straight back chair in the middle of the living room floor and called me over to stand in front of him. Then he told me to undress completely and I stripped while he watched me. I think he intended it to embarrass or humiliate me by making me strip, but I have never been that modest or ashamed to be naked – so it was probably a bit exciting to me.
He had me get over his knees [OTK] and he spanked me with his hand on my bare bottom. He spanked reasonably hard until my bare bottom was red and stinging. I did not cry or even beg and he was amazed that I was able to take as much as I did since it was my first time. He didn't make me count the spanks and I don't know exactly how many I got, but he later estimated that I got somewhere between 80 and 100 spanks on my bare bottom that first time.
I wasn't totally erect for my spanking, but I was excited as I leaked pre-cum on his trousers. That probably should have earned me additional spanks, but it didn't that time. He told me that I had taken more spanks and better than the other guys he had spanked. He said that he had spanked me harder and that the other guys would have been begging and didn't take it nearly as well. It made me proud that I could take more of a spanking than other guys that had been spanked more times than me.
Afterward, we talked about spanking and he shared some of his other spanking experiences with me. He also told me about his bi-sexual encounter with another man – actually he and his girlfriend and another couple – his girlfriend and the other girl did each other [every straight man's ultimate fantasy is to see girl/girl sex] and then they told their boyfriends that it was their turn. I was curious at the time about m/m sex but had never done anything – and did not with him – there was not any sexual attraction. My first m/m sex would happen about a year later when I was 32 with a 23 year old guy [and he was the experienced one].
After I took him back to his car, I came back home and later that night in bed [with my red stinging bare bottom], I replayed the entire spanking as I jacked off and shot my load. I probably had dreams of spanking but I rarely remember my dreams.
I do remember the next day, I was sitting at my desk and I could still feel the warmth and sting of my spanking from the night before. It's a wonder that I was able to keep from getting a boner and having to go to the men's room and jack off, but somehow I managed to wait until I got home.
I know that this has been a bit long, but I hope that you enjoyed this account of my first adult m/m spanking as much as I enjoyed recalling it. My first spanking wasn't the hardest spanking I have ever gotten or even the best spanking I have ever gotten – but it was the first and for that reason it is special.
I met this spanker again and in addition to a hand spanking, I got spanked with a ping pong paddle and his belt in practically every room of the house. He was inspecting the rooms and punished me if the room was not clean and neat. He had told me that he wore his hand out the first time on my tough butt and that he was going to use the paddle and belt this time.
Well... that's my first time ... let's hear about yours ...
I was 31 years old before I received my first spanking as an adult from another man. I had seen an advertisement for an adult BBS [bulletin board service] in the back of Penthouse Variations magazine [yes, I was still looking at straight porn and had not had any m/m sex at the time].
Through the BBS, I happened to locate a man in my area [or perhaps he located me – I don't remember now]. I chatted with him about my curiosity and interest in being spanked. He had spanked a couple of men previously, but he dated [and maybe was engaged] to a woman. He was older than me – perhaps in his early 40s and wanted to give me a spanking and I wanted to get spanked.
This was in the days before scanners and digital cameras were common and everyone didn't have photos to trade online. We talked on the telephone and then arranged to meet in public. We met in a parking lot of a grocery store about a mile from my house. After sizing each other up, we decided to proceed and I invited him to ride with me to my house.
He was about my height or maybe a bit taller. He wasn't a lot older than me, but he was slightly balding and looked older than his actual age – while I have always looked younger than my actual age. So the effect was that he appeared old enough to be an authority figure. He wasn't wearing a suit and tie, but he did have on dress slacks and a long sleeve dress shirt – so there was the sense of authority in his attire as well.
He placed a straight back chair in the middle of the living room floor and called me over to stand in front of him. Then he told me to undress completely and I stripped while he watched me. I think he intended it to embarrass or humiliate me by making me strip, but I have never been that modest or ashamed to be naked – so it was probably a bit exciting to me.
He had me get over his knees [OTK] and he spanked me with his hand on my bare bottom. He spanked reasonably hard until my bare bottom was red and stinging. I did not cry or even beg and he was amazed that I was able to take as much as I did since it was my first time. He didn't make me count the spanks and I don't know exactly how many I got, but he later estimated that I got somewhere between 80 and 100 spanks on my bare bottom that first time.
I wasn't totally erect for my spanking, but I was excited as I leaked pre-cum on his trousers. That probably should have earned me additional spanks, but it didn't that time. He told me that I had taken more spanks and better than the other guys he had spanked. He said that he had spanked me harder and that the other guys would have been begging and didn't take it nearly as well. It made me proud that I could take more of a spanking than other guys that had been spanked more times than me.
Afterward, we talked about spanking and he shared some of his other spanking experiences with me. He also told me about his bi-sexual encounter with another man – actually he and his girlfriend and another couple – his girlfriend and the other girl did each other [every straight man's ultimate fantasy is to see girl/girl sex] and then they told their boyfriends that it was their turn. I was curious at the time about m/m sex but had never done anything – and did not with him – there was not any sexual attraction. My first m/m sex would happen about a year later when I was 32 with a 23 year old guy [and he was the experienced one].
After I took him back to his car, I came back home and later that night in bed [with my red stinging bare bottom], I replayed the entire spanking as I jacked off and shot my load. I probably had dreams of spanking but I rarely remember my dreams.
I do remember the next day, I was sitting at my desk and I could still feel the warmth and sting of my spanking from the night before. It's a wonder that I was able to keep from getting a boner and having to go to the men's room and jack off, but somehow I managed to wait until I got home.
I know that this has been a bit long, but I hope that you enjoyed this account of my first adult m/m spanking as much as I enjoyed recalling it. My first spanking wasn't the hardest spanking I have ever gotten or even the best spanking I have ever gotten – but it was the first and for that reason it is special.
I met this spanker again and in addition to a hand spanking, I got spanked with a ping pong paddle and his belt in practically every room of the house. He was inspecting the rooms and punished me if the room was not clean and neat. He had told me that he wore his hand out the first time on my tough butt and that he was going to use the paddle and belt this time.
Well... that's my first time ... let's hear about yours ...
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